Keeping your kids' world small and safe online
For a lot of family life, being the product doesn't sit right. Here's how we think about privacy, and a few plain questions worth asking of any app.
When you set up almost any app for your family, you tend to become the product. Your attention, your kids' attention, your data. It's the deal underneath most "free" things, and once you notice it you can't really unsee it.
For a lot of family stuff, that trade-off doesn't sit right with me. The family calendar, the kids' chores, photos from your weekend. That isn't content for an algorithm. It's just your life.
Smaller is safer
The internet pushes everything toward bigger. More followers, more reach, more strangers who can find you. For kids, smaller is almost always safer. A closed space with the people they actually know beats an open one with a discoverable profile and a public friends list.
That was a line we drew early with Oona. No public profiles, no friend requests, no way for someone outside your household to find or message your kids. Everything happens inside your own family. It's deliberately small.
Talk about it, don't just block it
Filters and screen-time limits have their place, but they aren't the whole answer. Kids grow up and get around the controls. What sticks is the conversation: who they're talking to, what's okay to share, what to do when something feels off.
A private family space helps here, because it gives kids a low-stakes place to practise. Messaging, sharing, keeping track of their own things, all inside a space where the only people watching are people who love them.
Know where your family's information lives
It's worth asking, of any app you hand your family's life to, a couple of plain questions. Who can see this? Is it sold, or used to train something? Can you get it back, or delete it?
You don't need to become a privacy expert. You just need to pick tools that treat your family's information like it's yours, because it is. No ads pointed at your kids. No selling the data. Boring, in the best way.
The goal isn't fear
None of this is about being scared of technology. It's about being a bit choosy. Keep your kids' online world small and known, talk to them more than you block them, and pick the handful of tools that earn the trust. That's a good place to start.
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