Family messages
Group chat and private messages, just for your family.
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Messages is your family's own group chat, plus private one-to-one messages — a calm place to talk that stays inside your household.
Start chatting
- Open More → Messages (on a computer it is in the left sidebar).
- The shared family group is always there — tap it to say hello to everyone.
- For a private chat, tap the pencil icon at the top, then pick a family member.
In a conversation
- Type your message and send. Add a reaction to any message with a long press or tap.
- Read receipts show you when your messages have been seen.
Privacy and oversight
- By default, conversations are private to the people in them.
- A parent can turn on Message oversight in Settings → Household. It is off unless someone switches it on.
- When it is on, owners and parents can read conversations that include a child, for safeguarding. They cannot post in those threads — a little eye marks a chat that can be seen this way.
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Still stuck? Email support@oona.co.nz or send us a message — a real person in New Zealand will help.